America

“Mainstream American society finds it easiest to be tolerant when the outsider chooses to minimize the differences that separate him from the majority”

Mainstream American society finds it easiest to be tolerant when the outsider chooses to minimize the differences that separate him from the majority. The country club opens its doors to Jews. The university welcomes African-Americans. Heterosexuals extend the privilege of marriage to the gay community. Whenever these liberal feats are accomplished, we congratulate ourselves. But it is not exactly a major moral accomplishment for Waspy golfers to accept Jews who have decided that they, too, wish to play golf. It is a much harder form of tolerance to accept an outsider group that chooses to maximize its differences from the broader culture.

Malcolm Gladwell, “Sacred and Profane”, The New Yorker (31 March 2014), 27-28.